Old houses and elderly women in Kerala have something in common. They are hospitable. Of course, if they know you. When one visits, the grandmother or old lady of the house will insist on making coffee or tea and giving some home made snack. Even if the other younger inmates of the house ask instead of forcing us to eat, the elderly ones will insist and even force. They will then say, “Have something to eat.” The something may not be much but it is a ritual which is never forgotten and always insisted upon. Visiting houses will always leave this after taste in one’s mouth. An after taste of love and hospitality.
In St. Luke 9: 13, Jesus tells his disciples, “You give them something to eat.” The something in this case is 5 loaves and two fish and this was to be for 5,000 men. The practical disciples want Jesus to send away the people who were listening to him. But on the other hand, he is talking about a something. Christian spirituality and belief is always about this something. Nothing fancy, nothing huge but somehow miraculously enough to get our things done.
The houses with grandmothers are also like this. The others are on the verge of embarrassment but still the elderly people will insist on giving something. This something is not planned and not prepared in advance. It may be so small in quantity and yet enough for those consuming it. Snacks are kept and the elderly women will ask for new stocks of snacks, home made or bought, even though there is no information of any visits to be made and visitors to be hosted.
Something is an important word. It feeds those who are hungry, is a symbol of compassion and love and brings people together. Something is also an insistence of doing good, taking risks and dreaming of success. Something can also mean different things depending on the usage. It is interesting that Christian hospitality can be achieved with something, with uncertainty and with no planning. Coming to think of it, we don’t need much resources to accomplish a task and do something good. We only need ‘something.’ Amen.
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