Loving God, may this new year be one which realizes our
potential and does not seek to satisfy others. It is not new resolutions that
we need dear God, but the fulfillment of your promises. Inspire us Lord to be
compassionate, merciful, understanding and adjusting. Offer the year 2017 for
us and make it perfect enough for each of us in a special and different way.
Instead of pressures give us challenges, instead of dejection give us new
possibilities and instead of negative thoughts give us positive vibes of your
wonderful energy. We pray gracious God that every day of this year 2017 be a new
beginning and that these beginnings will give the passion to work hard in our
lives. Help us to be formed by you and not just educated by society. May this
formation offer the guidance of the Holy Spirit to recognize what is right and
wrong. Merciful God, form us to be you,
so that 2017 need not be the most perfect year, but just perfect for us. Amen.
Fr. Jerry Kurian is a priest, theological educator and public speaker with interests in blogging, social media, theatre, internet ethics, preaching, life skills and leadership training.
Sunday, January 1, 2017
Monday, December 26, 2016
The cries of children from Bethlehem: An inspiration to fight for good
St. Matthew 2:16-18
One of the most tragic incidents mentioned in the
bible and that too in very few words, is the killing (cold blooded murder) of
children two years and below in and around Bethlehem by Herod. The usual
reaction to the story is wondering about the cruelty of Herod and about why the
birth of Jesus led to the killing of several babies and how justified is such a
birth of the savior of the world. It has parallels to the saying “mother killer”
when a birth of a baby leads to the death of the mother due to some birth
complication.
The association comes for many people and the more
one thinks about it, the more one is perplexed by the association of how this
can happen. This association is what prevents us from raising our voice and
doing good. We think that if we say something and that leads to something happening
to someone, that we are responsible for that. It is though a very naïve understanding
of the situation. We have to sometimes say things for the common good and for
the benefit of society. We are not opposing a person but the evil in a person
which even he/she may or may not be aware of.
Herod was a leader and the birth of Jesus needn’t
have bothered him too much. Yet he is surprisingly rattled. The birth of a baby
upsets him! This also makes us think what kind of a leader he was. But what he
ends up doing through the murder of innocent children is that he reiterates
that he is inherently evil. So who was the reason of the deaths? Herod or Jesus? Many a time we think that if
not for Jesus the children would not have died.
One must come out of the understanding that Jesus
was responsible for the death of the children. There was only one planner and
executioner and that was Herod and perhaps his advisors. If we do not accept
this, many of us will step back from doing any good because we will think that
others will be sacrificed in the process of what we are going to do. The
thought is always “I can sacrifice whatever but why should others be affected?”
This thinking is not helpful because it will prevent us from doing any good
even though we are capable of it. The celebration of Christmas and the time
which follows up to new year will be like this. It is a time to not just
remember the birth of Christ, but to do what he did. In the process we are
bound to ruffle feathers, bring discomfort to others and be a thorn in the
flesh to many. This is why we must understand that celebration and dejection go
hand in hand. There was wailing and sadness in Ramah and mothers were crying
because they had lost their young ones. But we need to cry only if Jesus lead
to the death of the children. Contrary to this he did not. It was Herod who had
planned and implemented this. Jesus was only a ploy he used.
There are many leaders who do likewise. Someone else
is made out to be the reason of a cruel decision. It appears so in the case of
the death of the young here as well. But that is where we err and we must know that
the birth of Jesus leads to the birth of courage and expression of views and
opinions in a culture that cannot express itself. The murder of the babies is
the cowardice of Herod and nothing else. The women wailing are made to think
that the reason is something/someone else. But as soon as they would have known
who the conspirator was, they would have stopped crying because the children
died cruelly at the hands of a dictator.
Civil wars rife in Syria and Iraq and international
conflicts like in the case of Israel and Palestine and internal conflicts in
many parts of the world all lead to genocide and the brutal killing of
children. The killers will always say that it happened because of some rebels
and external forces. The truth though is that it happens because the regime
wants to quell dissent in various forms. The killing of the babies by Herod
reminds us of the danger of regimes who will justify their actions and use
religious symbolisms to say that they are right. The killing of the children
instead should remind us of the birth of Jesus who went against the shrewdness
and injustice of repressive regimes and instead stood with the people and
fought for life and human dignity.
The birth of Jesus is not a time to cry but a time
to raise our heads and question countries and dispensations that are anti
people and oppress people. The people of Syria and Palestine among many other
countries deserve to have access to their mother land and live a life of
dignity there. We must not allow the creation and continuance of Herod like
figures who use the birth as an excuse to take life instead of encouraging life
and dignity. The innocent children died a violent death due to such sinful
characters and this should not continue to happen during the commemoration of
Jesus’ birth narrative.
Saturday, December 24, 2016
A prayer for Christmas
A baby is born, he is crying in the manger. It is not a cry
of fear, but one of life and life in abundance. Christ is born so that the poor
may be exalted and the proud may be humbled, he is born for you and me, outside
an inn he is born. We may not hear the cry because it is not harmonized to
our liking. We may not see the baby because we are used to looking inside
swanky buildings and not stench filled streets. Christmas is here and Christ is
born.
Loving God, allow us to close our eyes and listen to the cry of the baby and be inspired to be what Jesus stands for on earth and in heaven. Jesus, hold our hand and walk us through places we avoid and allow us to feel your birth in every step we take and in everything we see. Holy Spirit, help us overcome the fear of the unknown and as we be a part of the service of nativity may our sins be absolved as we try to reach out, smile, help and be with those around us. Amen.
Loving God, allow us to close our eyes and listen to the cry of the baby and be inspired to be what Jesus stands for on earth and in heaven. Jesus, hold our hand and walk us through places we avoid and allow us to feel your birth in every step we take and in everything we see. Holy Spirit, help us overcome the fear of the unknown and as we be a part of the service of nativity may our sins be absolved as we try to reach out, smile, help and be with those around us. Amen.
Wishing you a blessed Christmas.
Thursday, December 22, 2016
The birth of Jesus: How Fr. Shibu and Kairunnissa are outing the inn (in)
St. Luke 2:6-7
The birth of Jesus is important not for cakes,
decorations and celebrations but to be assured that humans are created in the
image of God and will therefore live life loving and helping all that God
has created. This is God saying that God has created human beings to reflect
God’s self on earth. The birth of Jesus is indeed a happy event because it
reminds and inspires us to do good even when everyone and everything around us
does not. It is not to follow the world but to follow the voice and will of
God.
The birth in unusual circumstances shows that the
people of God cannot be limited to buildings and walls but should extend
everywhere and anywhere because that is the real birth of Christ. The
interpretation of no place being there in the inn is a reflection that God
lives with the most ordinary of ordinary. Most of the things we have built on
earth are an aberration of God's creation. It takes us away from the real
birth of Christ. The church by moving into comfortable environs to celebrate
the birth of Christ suggests our moving in to comfortable inns while the baby is
denied a place inside the inn! The image of God is absent in such acts of
celebration of the birth of Jesus. We do not have an affluent baby Jesus
because a baby cannot be affluent by herself/himself.
The church has become too affluent for Jesus but all
is not lost for the church and the people of the church. One can get rid of the
affluence and try and make the birth of Jesus meaningful for everyone. Fr.
Shibu K.Y., a Jacobite Christian priest donated one kidney to a Muslim woman Kairunnissa
yesterday. By doing that he has challenged the affluent church to shed its
affluence. Many were disturbed and uncomfortable with his decision and even
suggested it was wrong to give away what God has given us to live a comfortable
life. The argument that we need two kidneys because that is what God has given does
not go along though with the fact that God was meant to be in heaven but chooses earth, was meant to be in the inn but ended up outside it and did not have to be crucified but was anyway. God gave up so that humans and the world would have
and that is the birth of Jesus.
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| Fr. Shibu K.Y. |
Fr. Shibu and Kairunnissa are offering us the
opportunity to understand the birth narrative. We have gone far away from the
born Jesus. This is an opportunity to come back to the narrative of what the
birth of Jesus means. It is God loving and giving us. God need not but God does
because that is what God is. The love of God encompasses everything we know.
Fr. Shibu by giving and Kairunnissa by suffering and now receiving show us that
Christ is born in them. We are getting an invitation to pray with them during
Christmas. Of course we are not used to what they have done and so their
spiritual invitation will also be difficult to accept and do. Never the less
they have woken us up from institutional and individual slumber and we must
thank them for that. From my facebook contacts I have also learned that Prof.
Sakhi John is doing the same for Shaju Paul and they are following several
others who have preceded them. Such individuals are challenging the church and
the people in church to live Christmas or the birth of Jesus. The liturgy of
their merciful church is not known to us and we haven’t heard the songs they
are using. But there is a language of love that they are using and this is
something all of us can follow if we take the effort to do so.
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| Prof. Sakhi John |
St. Luke 2: 6-7 tells us that Mary and baby Jesus do
not get space in the inn (‘in’). It is also that space in the inn is mostly not
available to everyone as the inn has become institutional. It represents all
churches which are not welcoming and loving. But Mary, Joseph and baby Jesus do
not give up. They make the ‘out’ their home and that then becomes the place
which the shepherds and the elders come to and see Jesus. Fr. Shibu and Kairunnissa
and Prof. Sakhi and Shaju Paul among many others have not got a place in the
inn (‘in’). But they did not give up and made the ‘out’ their inn. We can now
join like the shepherds and see the birth that has happened. May the star lead
us and the angels rejoice.
Wednesday, December 21, 2016
This Christmas: Security to vulnerability
St. Matthew 1: 1-17
The genealogy of Jesus has two definite goals. One is the
traditional need to show the Davidic succession and two is the more
non-traditional goal to show the relationship of vulnerability with
spirituality. The passage in St. Mathew is read haltingly and is listened to
with not the same eagerness as other passages. Perhaps too many names and
difficult names at that put off the congregation. But what is in store is quite
a bit when we try to identify what kind of a spirituality we can seek during
Christmas.
We are always behind secure things. A news editor who wanted
change in his office finally became silent during the critical meeting with the
owners of the news channel because he was reminded of the EMI’s he had to pay
that month. Security which is of this world is difficult because it asks for
compromise and compromise leads to silence and stepping back. Christmas is one of the times when security
is paramount in our mind but should it be like that? What is the message of the
genealogy of Jesus? Is it security or is it vulnerability? The Davidic line of
Jesus which the writer is trying to portray may suggest security but some of
the characters in the genealogy do not suggest that.
Tamar, Rahab, Ruth, Uriah’s wife (Bathsheba) and Mary are
the women who are mentioned in the genealogy. They were all suspect of doing
something which was different from traditional society. One could say that they
did something out of marriage and a traditional family setting. At the end it
was seen as good but traditional society would have not allowed it and neither
will it do so now. These women did not just think about their security but
worked around their vulnerability. Tamar is subject to abuse and humiliation
and is forced to prove her worth. Rahab is seen as a sex worker and she sticks
her neck out in the secure environs she lived in. Ruth is a widow who has
to be with her mother in law because she is vulnerable after the death of her
husband. She does what no one else would do. Ruth is also abused and she
survives in her environment of abuse. Uriah’s wife Bathsheba is loathed and
raped by David who then gets Uriah killed in battle. She has to stand David
while mourning the loss of her husband and gives birth to Solomon who succeeds
David as king. Finally, Mary conceives out of wedlock and gives birth to Jesus.
All the women leave a life of security and struggle with their vulnerable
lives. The birth of Jesus this way comes out of vulnerability and not the
security of an assured line of kingly succession.
It is important for us to identify our vulnerability this
Christmas. Being secure is not being close to God but close to societal norms
and wrong traditions. Being vulnerable on the other hand is having faith in God
even when everything around is bad. Some of us are already living vulnerable
lives and Christmas is a time to imagine that Jesus was born out of such
vulnerability. How else would we preach and wish Christmas in a place like
Aleppo in Syria where there are unimaginable sufferings to the public. All the
ordinary people are vulnerable to abuse, bombings, hunger, capture and torture.
In effect Christ is born in places like Aleppo because vulnerability is at its
peak there. Our houses can only reflect the security of Christmas whereas
shelters and non-existent roads in Aleppo and other places reflect a vulnerable
Christmas where Christ is born because the birth of Jesus as we see is
associated with vulnerability.
Our Christmas symbolism is filled with definite things. The
Christmas tree, stars, decorations, carol rounds, Christmas services, cakes,
sweets and cards all show a secure and happy Christmas. The birth of Jesus was
in a time of fear and insecurity and yet people said yes to a fallible security
offered by the ruling dispensation. Those who went to see Jesus tried to
associate with the vulnerability of his birth and those associated with it. The
interpretation of vulnerability does not seek to discount and do away with the
spirit of celebration during Christmas. It rather looks at the hope that the birth
of Jesus offers in the midst of our vulnerable lives. There is no secure life,
secure password, secure spirituality or secure Christmas. We are vulnerable
always and we do not need to forget that during Christmas. Rather like the five
women in the genealogy of Jesus, we must pull on and move forward finding ways
to live and survive. The birth of Jesus signifies life in the midst of death
and suffering. The women in St. Mathew show us just that.
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